Article of the Day: Anal sex study reveals climate of ‘coercion’

A study on why teenage heterosexual couples may engage in anal sex has revealed a climate of coercion, with consent and mutuality not always a priority for the boys who are trying to persuade girls into having it.

Researchers at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine interviewed 130 teenagers aged 16-18 in three sites across the country to “explore expectations, experiences and circumstances of anal sex among young people”.

The qualitative study found that anal heterosex appeared to be “painful, risky and coercive, particularly for women”, while males spoke of being expected to persuade or coerce reluctant partners.

“Anal sex is increasingly prevalent among young people, yet anal intercourse between men and women—although commonly depicted in sexually explicit media—is usually absent from mainstream sexuality education and seems unmentionable in many social contexts,” the study, published onBMJ Open, says.

It found that some young people normalised “coercive, painful and unsafe anal sex”, in an issue that needs to be addressed by health workers and schools in sex education.

All the more reason safe anal sex techniques need to be taught. No one should be coercing anyone into having anal, and if you do things properly it should never hurt or cause damage. While this study is important and reveals a problem, it’s unfortunate that the article covering it does not even bother to mention that anal sex does not hurt when done correctly and that everyone involved in this study has clearly not been informed about how to properly have anal sex without pain.

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Anal Sex Month: 8 Tips For Great Anal Sex

Here are ways make anal sex pleasurable for both you and your partner.

August is anal sex month, so I’ve put together some tips for how to try it without any pain and, possibly, find it orgasmic.

I’ll summarize the tips below and you can go to the full article to read the details of each.

  1. If you can’t see it happening, it will never happen.
  2. You must know your own body.
  3. Make sure you lubricate!
  4. Use a condom for all anal sex.
  5. Women in porn often stimulate their clitoris during anal play.
  6. Use your fingers or a small anal toy, like the Bendi Butt Plug, to warm up for anal sex.
  7. As Jayme Waxman said on Better Sex Radio, porn stars are sexual athletes.
  8. Women should use her muscles to push as she moves onto the penis.

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Theory of the Day: Anal sex and semen in a woman’s ass creates a higher sex drive and dependency

First, semen anywhere helps a woman’s sex drive regardless if it’s left in a vagina, ass, or mouth. The mouth is probably the least effective being that the acids in the stomach can destroy the testosterone, while the vagina or colon would absorb much more effectively. The colon being the quickest and most effective.  This is the reason why some quick-acting seizure medications are inserted rectally – the body absorbs chemicals the fastest through the colon walls, semen/testosterone included.

Below I will piece together a few articles and let the reader decide. As far as I know, this claim has not been proven and it originally started when my wife, Venice, started to leave my sperm in her ass after sex. For whatever reason, it seemed a bit cleaner to pull out in the last few seconds and put my head in her ass and unload. She liked it, I thought it was a bit more kinky, and her vagina always stayed fresh to eat, not that my sperm has ever scared me away. However, it definitely was much fresher (no day old sperm). If her ass wasn’t as fresh, well… it’s her ass.

We immediately noticed that her sex drive shot through the roof. She began wanting to deepthroat me. In fact, this sparked her entire need to deepthroat (see “Deepthroating – My Introduction”). She went from initiating sex 10% of the time to 75% of the time, and she demanded that I cum inside her, especially in her ass.

Unsure of exactly what was happening, whether it was her maturing sexually, her age, or the semen in her ass, I began to experiment. For weeks at a time I would only cum in her mouth or vagina and slowly her sex drive would decline. She didn’t notice, but as a man, I did. If I came in her ass, within the next 15 minutes and lasting for the next 48 hours, it seemed to affect her libido. Her oral would change from slow and pleasant, to aggressive and demanding. Her sex talk would go from dirty to extremely dirty, especially when she talked about my cum.

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So the other Day my Master made me cum anally, and OWHMYGAWD!

It was probably one of the best orgasms I have ever had, tbh.

I’m sorry but if you aren’t having anal in your relationship there’s a fucking problem.

Im so happy that he got me into anal<3 because I love being his little anal slut and being filled with his cum(; 

-Daddy’s Slut


Discussion of the Day: I am a woman who can only orgasm from anal sex

It is incredibly humiliating to have to ask my partner for anal just so that I can get off but I don’t really know what I can do about it. It’s like my g-spot is somewhere completely different from everybody else’s.

The first time we tried anal and I came the moment he penetrated me. He was like “shit baby are you okay?” thinking he had hurt me and I was like “………..yes.”

I feel like less of a woman for not being able to cum vaginally when I can cum anally (and yes, I know most women can’t come from vaginal sex alone).

She gets many good replies:

I was with a girl for a while that seemed like she was this way. I don’t think it was the only way she ever got off, but she very definitely preferred it to vaginal. Before her, I always thought of anal as something that my partner and I might sometimes work up to during a session, but with this girl it was pretty common for us to skip vaginal entirely. I don’t think it’s something you should be humiliated about at all. If you’re into it (and you apparently are) and he’s into it, why not? Who cares?

You’d be surprised how close the vaginal wall is to the large intestine. It’s entirely plausible that either because of your position, shape/size of partners dick, or the vector of his thrust that feels most comfortable to him that it’s easier for him to hit your sweet spot from that doorway.

Unfortunately there are a few dumb myths spread in the thread as well:

Frequent anal sex can be very damaging in the long run. It can lead to anal incontinence and fissures in the wall between the vagina and anus by repeatedly putting undue pressure on the posterior membrane of the vagina. Also, tearing which is due to a lack of natural lubrication can increase the potential infection rate, and further the possibility of fissures. Lastly, frequent and vigorous anal sex can greatly increase the likelihood of a prolapse.

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Anonymous said: What is it about anal you like so much?


literally..everything. I think it feels absolutely amazing.


Anonymous said: How do I start to turn my little girl into an anal whore?(We already do anal and stuff and she loves it, but I want her to think of her asshole as her new cunt, like you do.)


First off just

communication. It’ll help a lot, it’s necessary. I’m not good to talk to about this because I sort of trained myself, but yeah.

Maybe start to talk about how much more you love anal, talk to her about it. Start fucking her ass even more. Play with her clit so she associates anal=pleasure. Have her be plugged up during the day or at certain times…. It depends on lots of little things. Make her feel good about her soon-to-be cunt. Eat it out like a pussy! 

I for one also go for edging and stuff too. I’m a fan of light humiliation/degradation, to each their own.


Discussion of the Day: Who prefers anal sex over Vaginal sex?

Predictably, most people answer that they prefer vaginal, but there are some great responses from those few who do prefer it up the ass.

I prefer Anal! I think it feels more intense then Vaginal. We have been together for over 10 years it’s almost always been pussy until I finally figured out how to get comfortable enough to have Anal(2 years ago), ever since it’s been about half and half.

Then there’s this unfortunate response:

I’m afraid that if I start doing it more I may like it more, or possibly my husband may like it more

Women need to get over the hangup that vaginal sex is proper sex and that something is wrong with them or they’re less of a woman if they prefer anal. If she’s afraid she’s going to like anal too much if she has it too much, she already does prefer anal and is just too afraid to admit it. That’s unhealthy and it’s a damn shame to deny yourself something you love and prefer (and that your partner probably prefers too). Just admit your preferences to yourself and go with them. Life’s too short to be concerned about what’s the “right” or “proper” way to fuck. Fuck the way you want to.

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Seriously though, I haven’t fingered my cunt in a year. I finger my ass, I’ll touch my clit. 

As far as I’m concerned, my ass is my new pussy.